tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13684790.post761713488076937835..comments2023-11-05T05:28:34.444-07:00Comments on Voice of Reason: The PreciousesNemesishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00110470182822628791noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13684790.post-7661100284678051102007-04-01T09:46:00.000-06:002007-04-01T09:46:00.000-06:00azucar: you must live in a charmed part of the sta...azucar: you must live in a charmed part of the state. In every ward I've been in people immediately get asked when they're having kids the moment they're married, and I live far from Church HQ, in Australia.choshahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07724444970503533654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13684790.post-1683945797917518302007-03-21T16:36:00.000-06:002007-03-21T16:36:00.000-06:00p.s. One of the strangest moments I had was when m...p.s. One of the strangest moments I had was when my best friend's boyfriend broke up with her while she was on a two week business trip. She came back and he said, I'm breaking up with you because I've met the girl of my dreams and I'm getting married to her next month. (IN TWO WEEKS?!?)<BR/><BR/>Turns out the girl of his dreams? Previously mentioned little sister's best friend in high school. Little sister was still IN high school, although the friend had just graduated (two months prior to the grand event.) <BR/><BR/>We're still shaking our heads over that one.Carinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13859567470814286102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13684790.post-16364781334212027412007-03-21T16:32:00.000-06:002007-03-21T16:32:00.000-06:00So funny. We were married 6 years before kids. W...So funny. <BR/><BR/>We were married 6 years before kids. We have lived in Utah our entire married life. We never heard one sniggle, one suggestion, one hint, or even one overt statement on the topic of when we should have children. I don't know which wards those young marrieds were attending, but ours were nothing like them! Which is kind of a shame, since I DO like to tell people things that make them swallow their own feet.<BR/><BR/>My siblings are all in the second half of their twenties now, and I as the oldest, was the only one married until last year. <BR/><BR/>My gorgeous 25 year old sister told me she was going to a birthday lunch for some of her high school friends. She then told me that she was the only one not married out of that group of friends. I laughed and told her not to worry because *huge secret* <I>all her young married friends are most likely so jealous of my single and fabulous sister, they can hardly stand it.</I>Carinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13859567470814286102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13684790.post-79882730366663784982007-03-21T09:25:00.000-06:002007-03-21T09:25:00.000-06:00You're right, Scully, that would be worse. The wo...You're right, Scully, that would be worse. The worst I got was seeing a girl who had been one of my 1st year girls at camp when I was graduating get married before I did. I boycotted that reception.Kristeeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13962392152495823796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13684790.post-58004892699835924812007-03-21T09:13:00.000-06:002007-03-21T09:13:00.000-06:00That's why I'm glad I'm the youngest!That's why I'm glad <I>I'm</I> the youngest!TOWRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01793365147574634180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13684790.post-76639827839725448612007-03-20T22:47:00.000-06:002007-03-20T22:47:00.000-06:00It could be worse, Kristee, you could be going to ...It could be worse, Kristee, you could be going to the wedding receptions of girls who weren't even in YW when you graduated from high school. That was a black evening.Scullyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17620935129369892579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13684790.post-81195263089744210542007-03-20T21:54:00.000-06:002007-03-20T21:54:00.000-06:00The girls 2 years younger than me in YW all got ma...The girls 2 years younger than me in YW all got married before I even turned 21. All 6 of them. I was so disgusted.<BR/><BR/>Savvy and Ethan are so fun! I think it's awesome that you're such an involved aunt.Kristeeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13962392152495823796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13684790.post-36982046121301985502007-03-20T15:25:00.000-06:002007-03-20T15:25:00.000-06:00Amen on the younglings who get married at 19 and t...Amen on the younglings who get married at 19 and think it's all so easy.<BR/><BR/>Nem you crack me up. The trenches is a good metaphor.<BR/><BR/>Just wait until ALL your siblings are married. Then you get to go to family gatherings and sing that Sesame Street song to yourself: "One of these is not like the others".goddessdivinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03649750585495782767noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13684790.post-31124698186397968722007-03-20T15:11:00.000-06:002007-03-20T15:11:00.000-06:00Except that when you always tell boys "no, sorry I...Except that when you always tell boys "no, sorry I can't go out with you because I'm not sixteen," you honestly don't think you are dating. You are just "hanging out". Which, as we all have heard by now, is totally the wrong way to do things.Spitfirehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13029250262995082494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13684790.post-91342316031719631722007-03-20T14:26:00.000-06:002007-03-20T14:26:00.000-06:00Good points, Spitfire. Also girls shouldn't sneak ...Good points, Spitfire. Also girls shouldn't sneak around and lie to their parents about how they're not dating when in fact they are. Not that I have sisters with personal experiences or anything. ;-)<BR/><BR/>I love you, my sister!Nemesishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00110470182822628791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13684790.post-68431066441946340592007-03-20T13:48:00.000-06:002007-03-20T13:48:00.000-06:00Yeah, dating totally sucks. That's why girls shou...Yeah, dating totally sucks. That's why girls shouldn't start dating until they are 16 at the absolute minimum. Because by the time you are 23, you feel like you've already been doing this for like, 10 years...because you have been, unfortunately. Then every time you hear the "D" word you just want to kill yourself. Also, 23 is not very old, so it's sad to have such a bad perspective at such a young age. Not that I'm speaking from personal experience or anything.Spitfirehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13029250262995082494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13684790.post-40289712993092777042007-03-20T13:18:00.000-06:002007-03-20T13:18:00.000-06:00What a lucky aunt you are! Those two are precious....What a lucky aunt you are! Those two are precious. <BR/><BR/>But I agree with you, Scully, the inadequacy doesn't end with marriage -- the pressure on young marrieds to reproduce is totally real. And totally annoying. And you don't even have to be in a Utah ward to feel it. I'll do my part to populate the nursury when I'm good and ready, thank you very much.Lindsayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13827607152706015982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13684790.post-27208886944753546872007-03-20T11:43:00.000-06:002007-03-20T11:43:00.000-06:00Ooooh, Sarita. Yeah. That's one thing that puts my...Ooooh, Sarita. Yeah. That's one thing that puts my teeth on edge. Also when the 20-yr-olds talk about how they're SO glad to be out of the dating game. And I'm like, "Yeah, cuz you were in it for <I>all of 5 minutes.</I> You have <I>no</I> idea what the trenches are, sweetie."<BR/><BR/>No worries, Jen. And yes, you are absolutely the opposite of a Smug Married.<BR/><BR/>Scully, you're true. I hope that if/when I'm in that situation I will have the moxie to tell people that I'm barren and thanks so much for bringing it up. Then watch smugly as they try to swallow their own feet. But yeah, that's really too bad about your poor brother and s-in-l.Nemesishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00110470182822628791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13684790.post-3060682959296446102007-03-20T10:58:00.000-06:002007-03-20T10:58:00.000-06:00The inadequacy game doesn't end there, my friends....The inadequacy game doesn't end there, my friends. My younger brother and his wife of 11 months are outcasts in their ward because it is All About Having BABIES! Seriously, they have no friends and the Bishop gets up on the stand every Sunday and lauds all the new parents and at least two children get blessed every Fast Sunday. I have witnessed it and seeing 20-22 year old girls bear testimony about being good parents to their 2 children under two made me very, very glad that I am where I am. I just wish my s-i-l could ignore the pressure.Scullyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17620935129369892579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13684790.post-69595095712309340652007-03-20T10:54:00.000-06:002007-03-20T10:54:00.000-06:00When I started reading the first line about how wh...When I started reading the first line about how when I was engaged I about broke out into a cold sweat. But then it was all ok. I don't think you should start talking about tampering with people's birth control. It's not very nice.<BR/><BR/>Also, for the record, I have never told my sisters how easy dating is. EVER.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18045980270615348902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13684790.post-16929567688057130492007-03-20T10:19:00.000-06:002007-03-20T10:19:00.000-06:00Old and shriveled? I know that's the only reason I...Old and shriveled? I know that's the only reason I served a mission!<BR/><BR/>Only my younger sister got married and started having babies after I returned. <BR/><BR/>So know I have 3 married sisters to tell me how easy dating is and how they all know how I feel.<BR/><BR/>My answer? Dating at 19 is a tad different than at 27. But maybe thats just me....Saritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10094278384918808776noreply@blogger.com